Your first love isn't always the first person you kiss, or first person you date. Your first love is the person you always compare everyone to. The person that you will never truly get over, even when you've convinced yourself you've moved on.
People are like stained-glass windows. They Sparkle and Shine when the sun is out, but when the darkness sets in, their true beauty is revealed only if there is light from within -Elisabeth Kubler-Ross quotes-i-love
it could say condem because juding isn't a bad thing. We always judge and that's a good thing - we judge the food we want to eat, the choices we make, the people we hang out with. The difficulty is being able to judge without condeming others judgement.