One day at a time - that is enough. Do not look back and grieve over the past for it is gone: and do not be troubled about the future for it has not yet come. Live in the present and make it so beautiful it will be worth remembering.
"You know, my hair is very upsetting to people, but it's upsetting on purpose. It is important to look old so that the young will not be afraid of dying. People don't like old women. We don't honor age in our society" Tyne Daly