“If you want to make a difference, the next time you see someone being cruel to another human being, take it personally. Take it personally because it is personal!”—Brené Brown (Abuse ignored is violence!
It seems everyone knows the truth in their own lives but the heart always likes to fight the hardest battles. The heart always looks for reasons beyond logic and understanding, so in the end Acceptance of the truth, takes time.
"The beginning of love is to let the one we love be perfectly themselves, not twist them to fit our own image. Otherwise we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them." - Thomas Merton, No Man is an Island
We lose ourselves in the things we love. We find ourselves there, too. Therefore be like water and do something to make a living that makes you laugh, that has to do with music, or that allows you to dance everyday anytime you want.