We feel angry and embarrassed when we are sucked in by someone who lies and manipulates. We resent the time, energy and love we offered them in good faith because it was all for nothing. They don& even appreciate what they took from us because it is.
my husband possesses this , everything he fell in love with about me he began to hate and kept changing and sending me on whirl winds. I couldn't keep my feet on the ground long enough before he had me paralyzed and brain
People always use the term sociopath for serial killers not realizing that some narcissistic sociopaths walk among us just destroying people's hearts & souls but allowing them to continue being not dead.
“We are told to love people unconditionally, but sometimes we must get rid of people unconditionally. Some toxic people just keep slithering and oozing in through the cracks in your resolve; they refuse to respect your boundaries.
Let him go if he can't respect you. If he tries to even the score or inflict pain on you. If he blames you for anything you've said or did. If he tries to make you feel guilty. If he can't forgive you. This is subtle abuse.
Narcissism I work in psychiatry and was sitting in on a session with a psychiatrist and a patient who was recently d&d'd by a narcissist. The psychiatrist said something that really rang true. She said to the patient