^this person is clearly fucked up^. Because I miss home right now, and i know exactly where it is. It's where my friends are who I've grown up with since i was young. They're family to me. They're the people I love. Home is where your family is.
You are allowed to terminate your relationship with toxic family members. You are allowed to walk away from people who hurt you. You are allowed to be angry & selfish & unforgiving & don't owe anyone an explanation for taking care of you.
Best advice I've ever gotten: dong sweat the small stuff. What matters more are the friends you make and the memories you make with them. or literally almost all the other advice I've gotten from her.
Family is supposed to be our safe haven, Very often, it's the place where we find the deepest heartache. Iyanla Vanzant: 5 Thoughts to Remember During a Family Breakdown - George
Some people only associate with others and call them their friends when they need something. And when their done leeching they act all hostile. If you associate with such a person, I suggest you drop them like a hot potatoe.
Quote: Let's raise children who won't have to recover from their childhoods. - Pam Leo Tagged with: Children , Family , Life , Love
INFJ - Like most sensitive souls, you already know you're sensitive. You soak up others' moods and desires like a sponge, you absorb sensation the way a paintbrush grasps each color it touches on a palette.
My friends are more my family than most of my blood relatives. Blood isn't always thicker than water.