"Being humble means recognizing that we are not on earth to see how important we can become, but to see how much difference we can make in the lives of others." President Gordon B. The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints.
Be yourself. if you water yourself down to please people or to fit in or to not offend anyone, you lose the power, the passion, the freedom and the joy of being uniquely you. it's muc easier to love yourself when you are being yourself.