"Be careful what you're doing b.c no one is ever who you wany them to be , and the less you really know them, the more likely you are to confuse them w. The boy or girl in your head" :) I had a hard time reading it. Stay out of "fantasy land"
"She believed in dreams, all right, but she also believed in doing something about them. When Prince Charming didn't come along, she went over to the palace and got him." ~ Walt Disney quote about Cinderella
Be daring. Be different. Be impractical. Be anything that will assert integrity of purpose and imaginative vision against the play-it-safer, the creatures of the commonplace, the slaves of the ordinary.