The NARC loves to twist and blame for his actions. He'll say things like 'I had to divorce her bc the relationship was unsatisfying'. To everyone else they look like a mature adult man who expresses his feelings. To the survivor who really knows him you say 'wow, I guess it was unsatisfying. That's what happens to a NARC when the person you've been stealing from for years runs out of money , praise/ and the desire to care for your sorry ass!'