I know people like this. So… Messy kitchen = great meals. Pet hair, furniture with scratch marks, and dog toys to trip over = cuddly bundles of love. Cluttered table tops = fun projects and handmade gifts for friends. Please don't judge my dust.
whatever the choice is, the options will surely be based on his current situation which arised from his previous life decisions. No need to judge. Just be factual. Everything will be seen clearer than mineral water.
"Everybody is a genius. But if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid" ~ Albert Einstein - Focus on where your strengths lie, not your weaknesses.
You will never truly understand the struggles of another person. Remember to realize how hard your own struggles are for you. The other guy feels the same way. We are all trying to make our way in this world so make it easy on everyone and don't judge.