Diapering/Physical health and well basic personal care/For the routine of diapering, sing this song when the child is having their hands washed. It will establish this as the normal routine, on into when they start to use the toilet.
I've lost people I loved to addictions. One thing I know is that I never hated them, I hated their behaviour, i hated their pain and wounds that drove that behaviour. but I never hated them. I loved them deeply.