This isn't meaning material things, it means 'real' things needed for a loving, treasured and respectful relationship. Deeds, qualities, thoughts and characteristics of a decent and mature man who has a loving and good heart.
Keep crying on your alcoholic ex husbands shoulder so he can continue to do your harassing for you. Oh, I forgot he's already been arrested for that shit and you have a no contact order against you!!!! Lol