I mean, I'm all for exhortation and , but this is a PERFECT example of two human beings respecting one another. Notice the person said 'My best friend'. These two people can overcome their own beliefs, respect one another, and be best friends.
They refuse to acknowledge that the women was raped and then they drawn attention to saying it was her fault that he got HIV+ and saying that women should wear something that lets them know they're HIV+. This is rape culture.